Please help me with this problem?

You seem very nice, but you also sound a little clingy. Sorry to say, but you don't have her to kick to the curb. She is a waitress, she is making a living, and some times what is nice in a club, isn't what you really want. Give her some space, don't hang on her every word, do your own thing. Don't call her, let her call you if she is going to, then when she wants to make plans, tell her you'll let her know.